March 29, 2012
All in all, I've found the preschool experience fun and educational, though exhausting: First, working with such an impressionable age group makes me feel like we're actually helping. Second, I've learned a ton about the education and development of small children. Third, I have confirmed my career decision to leave the education of and responsibility for small children to others (not that this was ever in doubt). And fourth, most importantly, if a close friend were to have a baby tomorrow, I would no longer treat it like a pariah.
If you had asked me a month ago what my worst nightmare was, I probably would have said being surrounded by small children. I have friends who love kids and who are amazing with three-year-olds and it completely boggles my mind. I’ve never been particularly fond of children, nor have I ever known what to do with them, and I actively avoid interaction with anyone under the age of 14. It occurred to me in Nepal that this is not an acceptable long-term personality trait because even if I never have children, someone in my immediate family/friend group will. I am bound to have to interact with miniature irrational humans at some point. So when I was thinking about what to do this spring, I thought forcing myself to interact with children fit nicely within the scope of my gap year: it’s certainly out of my comfort zone, it’s an area I would never give up time/brain space in my everyday life to improve, and there are lots of volunteer opportunities with kids.
Today marks the end of my fourth week in Peru—and my eleventh day working at a preschool! I now have thirty plus hours of child herding under my belt! This may not sound like much to anyone else, but for me, it is huge. I am proud to say I have not injured anyone (a claim Cole cannot make), mistakenly called a girl a boy (as I did my in my last child-interacting role) or done long-term damage to anyone’s psyche (I think). And what’s more, some of the kids even seem to like and listen to me!
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Photographic proof: me with a small child |
The preschool we’ve been helping at is in a part of San Bartolo very different from the area in which we are living. There are no sidewalks or paved roads or landscaping. The houses all have electricity but are just four basic walls and a flat roof of shoddy-looking materials. Instead of ocean views, the houses back up to the Pan-American highway with no barrier between the cars and the kids. Apparently the neighborhood developed illegally on public land and the residents pay little or nothing to reside there, but now it is so developed that it would be hard to get them all to leave. Regardless of the zoning legitimacy of the area, I like our time at the preschool because it feels much more like an area that needs help than the sufficiently church-funded Centro Pastoral. The preschool was built with public dollars but the money was used up before the grounds were completely finished. The result: a basic cement classroom and bathroom next to two other incomplete classrooms; a playground with huge piles of sharp rocks; and two unidentified “death holes” in front of the buildings.
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Where the sidewalk ends |
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School grounds |
The majority of the kids are three, with a few four- and five year-olds mixed in. If everyone shows up, there are eighteen kids in the class (on most days there are about thirteen). It turns out that playing with small children is pretty easy. Teaching them and disciplining them seems crazy hard, so luckily the class seems to have a pretty good teacher.
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Start of school party |
In the first hour of school, we just play. The kids love to build things, so legos, tanagrams, foam blocks, etc. are quite popular. The second hour is for work, which in preschool means coloring something or gluing yarn to paper. And the third hour is snack time and recess. I spend the majority of playtime playing a game I like to call “Where does it go?” which looks a little like this:
Elena picks up a lego or tanagram.
Elena: Donde va? (Where does it go?)
Small child, after a long thinking pause: Aqui! (Here!)
Elena picks up another toy and puts it somewhere silly, like the kid’s head.
Elena: Va aqui? (Does it go here?)
Small child bursts out laughing.
Small child: No! Grabs object. Va aqui!! (No! It goes here!)
I love this game because it is within my Spanish capacities and because the kids never seem to tire of doing the same thing over and over again. During work time, Cole and I each man a table and make sure the kids stay on track. During snack time, we open packaging, try to keep kids from stealing other kids food, and wait for the inevitable beverage spill (who sends a three-year-old to school with a wide-mouth soda/juice bottle?). And during recess, we play games, chase kids, and spin the broken merry-go-round the best we can.
On a more serious note, even without any background in educational policy, the small amount of time I’ve been hanging out in the classroom has been enough to see some of the “duh” structural improvements needed in the educational system (here or in the US). It makes me really wish our policymakers were forced to spend one day a month in a school or health clinic or community center, not as a photo shoot but as a chance to observe the real-life fallout of policy decisions. Here are a few of the things I’ll be keeping a closer eye on moving forward:
- Class Size. This one’s always seemed logical to me, but now I understand better which kids it matters most for. Bright, self-motivated kids are going to well no matter what. Trouble makers are going to get attention no matter how many other kids are there. But the kids in the middle—especially the quiet kids in the middle—are the ones truly at risk of falling through the cracks in a high student-teacher ratio classroom. The teacher in our preschool doesn’t even consistently call the quiet kids the right name. Granted we are only a few weeks into the year, but still, how sad for them.
- Importance of Preschool. At the health foundation, I learned that Head Start and other preschool programs can have an unbelievable impact on a child’s future educational success. Now I can see why: preschool teaches kids how to learn, how to exist in a structured environment, and how to listen to and follow directions. It’s amazing the difference between the kids brand new to preschool and those who are on their second year. Less crying when the parents leave, better listening, and an understanding of the cause and effect between doing work and getting to eat a snack. I can only imagine how difficult kindergarten must be for kids who don’t go to preschool—especially when they are in classrooms with those who have.
- Safe School Grounds. If I could endow a foundation, I would spend all my money just to go around the world completing half-completed school construction projects. So often I see foundation or government funded projects that begin construction and then run out of money and never finish. The ironic thing is that I’m pretty sure an old building is safer than a new building surrounded by death holes. And what’s more, San Bartolo regularly has large groups of volunteers (missionaries) from a church in Boston—this June, they will planting trees at the already immaculate Centro Pastoral. Seems quite superfluous after a morning at the preschool.
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Small children playing near death hole #1 |
Small children! |